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Twitter 00 I've been seeing this guy for a little while now, and I've noticed something about us that kind of concerns me: I'm not saying we're plastered or throwing up, we're always coherent, it's just that we usually have a couple of drinks before we hook up. This past weekend, he invited me to a Szonatina online dating party he was throwing. I showed we only hook up when were drunk sober I was drivinghe'd been drinking and tried to hook up with me. I brought two friends with me to his party so it wasn't a good time one of them book work in the morning so we couldn't stay long and I told him as much. Then I said we should hang out when we're sober sometime and he agreed.
I felt my spit thicken, and I wanted to vomit. What if this mega-crush was unrequited? I prayed the comforter would protect me from the inevitable sting of rejection from a girl I didn't know, but who I was certain I loved. We were too wasted to realize we were replaying the same movie over and over again.
We all know how drunk people like to repeat themselves. This was all because we started our relationship wasted. Every single time I saw her, we would party like we were going to the electric chair. Oh, tequila is our drink, babe! Oh, let's do shots because we're so drunk and in love and so crazy and wild for each other.
Let's peel off our clothes and twist our bodies together beneath the cheap sheets in your dorm room and have sex we can only remember in blurry flashes the next day. Let's wake up feeling the dreaded waves of anxiety as toxins leave our frail, young bodies. But later, I'll need to clutch your body until you can't breath because I'm scared of the world when I'm sober.
And when I'm hungover, that fear is debilitating and paralyzing. I'll need a ton of reassurance that I'm good because I feel really bad about myself after I'm drinking. And you don't feel well when you're hungover, so you'll get rightfully annoyed with me. We'll fight and fight because neither one of us is in a rational, balanced state of mind.
And when two people are all nerves, anxiety and feeling akin to death, how can they communicate properly? You're starting to fight all the time — not just when you're hungover, but when you're drunk, too. Drunk bliss stops working after a while. Reason four: Studies have shown that sexual performance, along with other motor coordination skills, declines at a blood alcohol content of.
Reason three: You might forget to use protection. According to a Washington Post survey, 38 percent of Virginia college students have had alcohol use lead to unsafe sex. Reason two: Drinking is directly linked to sexual violence. I know that everyone thinks that it could never happen to them, but an NIAAA survey reported that 50 percent of all sexual assaults occur when alcohol is involved.
Of those assaults, almost all 97 percent involved an inebriated assailant and an inebriated victim. Staying sober can help you make the important choices necessary to protect yourself.
Reason one: So, there you have it, 10 reasons not to engage in drunken sex. Some women have reported being fat-shamed by a drunk partner; something that obviously would be an immediate buzzkill.
Accidental flatulence Perhaps one of the most embarrassing things that can happen during sexy-time is when you or your partner accidentally fart. This is particularly true during a first time hook up. Alcohol is an irritant to the entire gastrointestinal system. As a result, it creates gasses as a way of evacuating itself of waste and toxins. How booze makes depression worse Certain types of alcohol, such as beer, are more likely to make you fart.
The reason? Most commercial beers are injected with gas as part of the manufacturing process. In addition, ethanol, a key ingredient in beer, also promotes gas formation within the digestive tract. Even small amounts of booze can cause lapses in memory.
Take a moment right now and reflect on the last time you shared intimacy while intoxicated. How much of it do you really remember? Chances are, not much. But if your goal is to experience something pleasurable and memorable, you might want to skip the booze altogether.
Remember there is always a morning after.