"It's like this bag of jackfruit chips I got in a Thai grocery store that Dating sites and services tailored to race, religion, and ethnicity are not new, of course. you meet an attractive Asian girl, no 'Sorry I only date white guys. When it came to dating, I felt like I had to overcome barriers that my non-Asian friends didn't have to. Jay Kim says "the single act of dating a white woman should never be "I only take photos of interracial couples with an Asian guy and a white girl." His website was his way of showing this wasn't true.
If you've ever wondered why: And as we all know, actions speak louder than words. Then let me explain why. Reason 1: You see, a White female is more masculine, rough and independent than a typical Asian female from Asia.
So you will have better pickings in Asia than the white men do, assuming of course that you are a decent quality Asian male comparing yourself to an equal quality White male, all else being equal. Is it really so bad to give up White women for Asian women like these? In addition, the Asian females in Asia are also better for you because they are more down-to-earth, feminine and non-westernized. In other words, they aren't as corrupted or spoiled. They act more humble and modest, not arrogant like Americanized Asian girls do.
In Asia, women are raised with traditional values, to care about others and prioritize the needs of their family, husband and children. They aren't raised to be selfish, narcissistic and egotistic like they would be in American culture.
As we all know, humble modest girls are easier to get along with than spoiled arrogant girls. So the women in Asia make better wives, will treat you better, and have better values and character. And thus will complement you better. That's why Asian countries have much lower divorce rates than America does, not surprisingly.
Me and some Chinese girls I met in China while I was outside asking directions. They invited me to eat with them later. As you can see, girls in China are much more friendly, social and hospitable toward male strangers, as this would never happen in America. So I would definitely recommend you go somewhere in Asia to date women. Find a job or start a business there if possible, so you can live long term and have a better prospect of finding a good quality partner than if you were just a tourist.
If you don't know where to start, then visit several Asian countries to find out where you fit best, including your own native country where your parents or ancestors came.
However, I wouldn't put too much stock in finding a girlfriend or partner in the wealthier first tier Asian countries though, such as Hong Kong, Taiwan, Singapore, Japan or Korea. The women in those nations tend to be spoiled, difficult and very picky.
So unless you are the cream of the crop or you have a lot of social connections and networks in such countries, I wouldn't try to date women there. I mean you could try of course, and you may get lucky, but I wouldn't put much stock or hope in it. The women in such countries are well off, independent and have money.
They don't even need men, so they will demand the cream of the crop or be very picky, because they can afford to be. What's more, they tend to be hyper closed when it comes to talking to strangers or meeting new guys. So they aren't even that social or open with new people, and that includes you too.
That's my advice. Take it or leave it. Now one final thing. If you are an Asian male still interested in White girls, what I would recommend is that you go date the White girls overseas, in Europe and Russia. Not in USA or Canada. That's because the white women in Europe and Russia tend to be a lot more down to earth and genuine, and are less racist toward Asian men, in my experience. So you will have a better time connecting with them and vibing with them.
If nothing else you will at least make some nice new White female friends over there. Once you go to Europe, you will see that the white women there are NOT like the white women in America. They don't act as fake or immature, and aren't as paranoid or high strung or man hating, as American women are. So you will feel much more comfortable with the white females there, in European countries and Russia. In particular, focus on Eastern Europe for the women there are less spoiled and not into feminism as much.
However, even if you find a girlfriend in Europe or Russia, again like I said earlier, the chances of it lasting long term into marriage aren't that great. There is simply a rift between the natural instinct of White females and Asian males, one that makes them drift easily apart. Of course, there are successful marriages between Asian men and White women, they do exist no doubt, and examples can be found.
But that doesn't mean that the majority of Asian men will succeed long term with white women. It only means a minority will. Though not impossible, it's simply not as achievable as dating within your own Asian race. Now I'm not trying to discourage anybody here. Just giving the facts. Hope you understand where I'm coming from. Regardless, always remember to follow your heart. That's the most important thing. Thanks for reading. To learn more about the benefits and freedoms of dating foreign women and living abroad.
Discuss this topic in the HA forum here. As you can see, they are way more warm, friendly, sociable and approachable than girls in America by far. And their faces are much more relaxed and genuine as well. Now do you see why I recommend these foreign areas for dating white girls? It appears that I've been receiving some hate and attacks in the comment section below. There are claims that I'm wrong because ugly, or because they know some exceptions.
But this is an obvious logical fallacy, because a few exceptions do NOT debunk a general claim or a majority. Just because you are a white woman who likes asian men, or someone you know is, does NOT change the fact that the vast majority of white females over 90 percent at least do NOT. Here's an easy way for you all to test my claims: Go outside and look around. And that speaks volumes. It says it all. Even in Europe and Russia, you do not see many either.
Now Siberia or Eastern Russia may be another matter of course. I haven't been there so I can't comment. Here's another experiment you can try: I was there to interview for a finance job. Edward originally went to college in China, and had just graduated with an M. In addition to being good looking and fashionable, he was 6 feet tall.
Basically, he had no excuse or reason to fail. So what excuse or reason he had to fail? Well, he found one.
Being Asian! He went 3 years without a date, in NYC! Edward spent three years blaming his success with women on being Asian. There is no evidence that shows this is true. But he believes in it. A friend once told me. If you look for fault, you will find it.
Edward found his. The first thing that came out of his mouth, when I was introduced to him: Where did all this negative programming come from? Do not indulge, entertain or explore this idea or belief. Wow I was speechless. What in the world is going on? I was just glad I did not know him back in the days when I started out. I guess I was lucky, when I was in high school; the guys I saw who were successful with girls were Asian guys.
I remember that Asian dude, and all I can say was, he was bad ass. He dressed super fashionable and he was confident. He was fearless and did not give a shit what anyone thought of him. I guess this subconsciously taught me that Asian guy are attractive.
A value I still believe and hold true. What I saw in Edward was a good looking guy who was confident. I felt really bad for the guy. I decided to teach Edward in the three days I was there. The best quality about Edward was that he wanted to learn this. He met me in Union square for three days and three nights. Edward was a trooper. He would approach any girl at any place. I gave him some of the same advice Chase gives to all his students. Edward found his first American girlfriend.
She was your typical American girl. An NYU girl, she was a member of a sorority, young, tall and beautiful. Stop talking about Asian stereotypes and start living your life.